This is the fundamental truth about everything in life, and more so our relating: The more curiosity, energy, responsibility and teamwork you bring to your relationships, the more fulfilling they will become.
Mastering the fundamentals of Relating from a fully responsible and emotionally open space, will bring you empowering connections everywhere in life, including the connection to yourself.
“The quality of your relationships determines the quality of your life”
Responsibility >> Claiming responsibility over the things you say, the ways in you act, the feelings you feel and how your triggers and coping mechanisms affect your partner.
Energy >> Choosing to invest energy (and time) in finding the solutions, resolving the resentment and conflict and staying committed and emotionally open to your partner.
Curiosity >> Staying curious about who your partner is, never assuming you know their answer and their motivations. Being present and listening to understand rather than to respond.
Teamwork >> Stepping down from the mindset and energy of “me vs them” and acknowledging that unless you both win, none of you do. Using proactive problem solving skills and emotional safety to resolve conflict together.
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Testimonials
What my clients say…
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"You helped me shift my perspective on even causal dating and being authentic and real with where I’m at. You helped me realise that even in a casual relationship, I should only accept someone who accepts all of me and every version and to embody what you’re feeling"
Sophie
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"My call with Juliana helped me shift the stagnant energy I was facing in life on a day to day basis. Her practical approach and problem solving skills were refreshing and motivating. She helped me compartmentalise some of my problems, which I discovered were disguised opportunities. Her guidance helped me towards finding my own answers! Thanks Juliana, much love"
Zoe
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Being held by Juliana has been an absolute joy. She is authentic, strong and grounded and her ways of validating, reflecting and asking questions has helped me find so much perspective and clarity. Our sessions have brought me deep into the fundamentals of myself and out again with more clarity and direction. I'm looking forward to continuing to work with Juliana and learn more from our sessions.
Moa
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"We know that everytime we get to this call is going to be a productive call... because I feel there is plenty of things that I don't talk about as well as when we are in a space with you. We know that this is a safe space for us to share how we feel and what we want"
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“I would say to anyone thinking of working with you that I highly recommend you. In a month I managed to make progress in areas of my life that were very stuck, and to rethink my own ways and patterns. I succeeded in seeing other people and situations in my life from a more objective place. I healed and advanced heaps in the process of letting go of my relationship with my ex. You also supported me with moving away from the place of mothering my ex partner and into prioritising myself as a woman. You are the best! You helped me on such a deep level that not even the psychologist I’ve been seeing for longer could. It was a very fast and practical process with you.”
Gisel
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I really recommend working with Juliana. It was very easy to open up to her and I felt unjudged and comfortable. It really gave me a lot of insights. I have noticed a massive change in our relationship. It has really helped me heal from some past issues we had. Was able to discuss our issues as a couple in a safe environment and come up with ways to help move forward with our issues.
Anna B
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"I love the strong mirror you bring to every interaction. You've helped me to accept more of myself and to meet myself in reverence. Your sharings inspired me to hold a new level of what I will stand for with my own relationships."
Mareah
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I have only had one session with Juliana and what stood out to me was her humility and honesty. I appreciated her transparency and the simple explanation of what I could expect the session to look like. Despite some technical issues at my end, Juliana was able to pivot and provide a more than worthwhile session which provided me with clarity. Juliana also followed up post session to offer a recap of our session in written form, which I appreciated. Over all, I enjoyed the session with Julianna. What set her apart from other Coaches is her willingness to grow in her practice skills through reflective feedback which she invites from her clients. Definitely worth investing in a session.
Fiona
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"Juliana really cares about us. We feel very supported"
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RELATIONSHIPS COACHING 1:1 ONLINE SESSIONS
Singles: $120 —> 50 min session
Couples: $150 —> 75 min session
Sessions come with a complementary email after the session with reflections, notes and suggestions to integrate.
I work in blocks of 8 weeks so that we can co-create a relationship, go deeper and commit to the work together.
6 weeks PACKAGES:
Singles: $880 for 8 sessions.
Couples: $1120 for 8 sessions.
Payment options available.
ALL SESSIONS MUST BE PAID A WEEK IN ADVANCE.
FULL REFUND WHEN CANCELLED AT LEAST 48 HOURS BEFORE THE SESSION.
NOTE: If you want to work with me, but cannot afford my prices, please let me know.
I am open to a few koha (gift donation) sessions a month.
Why work with me!?
>> My ability to navigate through emotionally charged moments with mental clarity helps me see through the stories that people tell themselves, and my creative mind helps me find ways to make things work and offer honest reflections for people to see what they want in their lives.
>> I am trained as an Inside Out Coach, a type of relational and therapeutic coaching that relies on the building of rapport, trust and the somatic experience of the body.
>> My down-to-earth & radical-honesty nature combined with years of personal experience in relationships makes me an exceptional guide.
>> I have a humble approach, I am someone you can connect to on a human level and I am genuine in what I do. This is a RELATIONSHIP between us, not a download of lessons.
>> Honesty, clear communication and ultimate responsibility are my biggest values, which you can expect when working with me.
>> I believe you have your own answers. I am here to reflect back on what I see and perceive while empowering you to trust your inner wisdom.
FAQs
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Sometimes our partner isn’t there yet, or they feel it isn’t necessary. And that’s ok. There is still plenty of discoveries and changes you can make on yourself that will impact your relationship. Focusing on you first would be a great start.
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YES, absolutely. This is a great time to: work on yourself to prepare for a future romantic relationship; or focus on your other relationships such as friends and family; and to process your previous romantic experiences in able to find the gold and integrate it.
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Yes. I like to work on blocks because it gives us time to get to know each other and create the trust that is needed to go deeper. However I am open to creating rapport in other ways, and to helping in any way I can
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That’s a great question. I like to start our sessions with a check in - we each share what is present for us in that moment, I like to be real too. I also like to know where we are at in the day so we can honour our needs.
We then discuss what we want to focus the session on. As you share, I might reflect back to you what I hear, or ask questions to think deeper or from different perspectives.
At the end of the session, I would do a summary with you, and together find some ideas on what to work on until our next session. I write an email at the end of our sessions withe the main points discovered and the homework so you don’t forget!
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I am a certified Inside Out Coach with Primal Intelligence. I also have a two-year degree in Psychological Astrology. And knowledge in NVC, Imago AND Attachment.
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Hola!
I am Juliana. I am a mother, a daughter, an astrologer, a gardener, a rebel, a builder and an Inside Out Relationships Coach.
I am passionate about relationships - I truly believe that healing the way we relate to others and to ourselves will heal the world.
My romantic, friendly and familiar relationships have transformed me and taught me my biggest life lessons, and I am convinced that is through navigating differences through relating that we grow wiser and stronger.
I was born and raised in Argentina, and moved to New Zealand at 20 years old initially interested in exploring but, quickly after, to create a new home.
It took me quite some time to find that sweet spot between what I love and what I am good at. First I studied Sociology in Buenos Aires, then studied 3D Animation in Auckland, held an art exhibition and had a very successful house painting business for 4 years.
Nowadays, I live in Oratia with my partner Tom, his daughter Hazel, and our toddler Aspen. My hobbies are building (yep, we are building our strawbale house!), gardening, adventuring, learning new skills, art and astrology.
People often describe me as brave, bold, honest, great communicator, helpful and practical. I will leave the rest for you!