Keep dating each other

A piece of very common advice you hear a lot in the relationship world... and one that has proven to be tremendously impactful.. is “KEEP DATING EACH OTHER”.

I didn’t give it enough importance in previous relationships and that has led me to feel bored of my partners. If you have experienced feeling like your partner is not who he used to be, truth is, more often than not, that you stopped doing the things you used to do. Whenever we stop creating moments that are designed to see each other & to have fun with each other, we start to drift off into routine life, and we all know routine is boring.

My partner and I have been taking this dating very seriously. We made a commitment to go on a date per week and we are alternating the planning... making it a surprise! This is a time with just the two of us FOR the two of us.

The benefits I found?
- keeps the mystery flowing
- exercises the creativity
- gets you & your partner out of the comfort zone
- breaks up the routine
- helps to approach your SO from a new perspective, especially important to not fall into the trap of “I know all about you therefore I am bored”

Photo: Tom and I arrived at this party in different cars.. both of us embodying an archetype. We didn’t plan it but we both picked black and leather, coincidence or nah?

I am not going to lie, it was nerve breaking to be face to face to him and pull out my character. I felt a bit shy and intimidated by having to perform, but that was soon over once I looked at him in the eyes and I knew this was all just a fun game.

We played it big.
We had so much fun, we saw each other in a different light. Polarity play, sex was amazing!

And you? Do you keep daring your partner? What benefits do you see?