>> MOMENTUM OVER PERFECTION <<

I took Tom on a date yesterday.

We have been committed to dating each other from the beginning of our relationship, however, we forget a lot… and hadn’t made time for it since Aspen was born. It was about time.

We went on a date to Piha.
When we arrived, we had a poo explosion followed by 30 minutes non stop cry of tiredness.

It was very windy and we could barely hear ourselves, and the sun was behind a haze that made everything look bright and white.

Squinting eyes, the noise of the wind humming on our ears, a heavy baby and some very depressing topics like paying taxes and house rates and being a slave of the system.

Combo for a perfect date huh?

The truth is that it doesn’t matter. It’s not about having perfect, well thought off and interesting elaborate dates. It’s not about having a five hour pleasure immersion or a expensive restaurant followed by theatre.

It’s about consistency and commitment to making time for the people you love.
It’s all about CONNECTION and feeling HEARD AND SEEN.

So tell me, have you ever waited so long for something to happen and it didn’t go as you planned?
What are your date-fails?