women’s power
Ladies… never underestimate your POWER within a relationship.
You have the ability to lift a man up & making him a HERO.
And so you have the ability to crush the manhood within a man.
With our beautiful gifts of intuition, all-seeing mind, and fluent communication skills. Alongside the revealing of our heart & sensitivity.. WE HAVE THE POWER to reflect beauty or to destroy beauty.
So, next time you are upset… angry, sad, mad, disappointed, etc.
Watch your language.
Watch the words you use.
Be careful not to blame. Not to punish. Not to nag.
There is a huge difference between:
“You NEVER pay attention to me! I told you I was having a rough day & you didn’t even offer me a hug! I don’t know if you don’t care at all about me or you are simply not present with me here… I am tired of this. You always do the same, you keep hurting me!” ddddhhh Yaak!
AND:
“My love, I need attention please? I’ve had a few rough days & I haven’t felt supported like I wished to be… I know you must be tired from your day, and busy doing blah blah… but I really need some support, I love it when you hug me and you tell me that you love me.. You can be so sweet & tender. I miss you, come here”
Option 1: Your partner feels little, not good enough, that he is not doing anything right. You are crushing his manhood.
Option 2: Your partner feels loved, cared for, important in your life. You are inviting your partner to step up & provide for you.
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