are you ready to date again?

Are you unsure if you are READY to start dating again?

Well.. I am convinced that being “ready” is bullshet. This is why 👇🏾

There is no evidence-based reason why you should wait to be completely OVER your ex in order to meet your next partner.

I didn’t “wait”… Instead I just followed the impulse every single time: and I never regretted it. Look where I am now!

Healing from a past relationship & grieving is not linear. There is no reason why you should wait for the grief to be gone because it will come & it will go… one day is ON.. one day you don’t remember a thing.

Grief can come all of a sudden, two years later when you though it was long lost in your memory.

Plussss ALSO, someone who is there to have fun with you, to take you out and make you feel special can be THE thing that helps you heal all that pain. No!?

Are you afraid that your grief will put men off?
Then those men are not the right men. Be you. Be honest. There is nothing shameful about your pain.

Are you afraid that you will JUMP straight into a new relationship?
Then let me ask you: What is the problem with that? What if you do? Where is that fear actually coming from?

Are you afraid that you are extra vulnerable & your heart is not as safe as it was?
Then you haven’t surrendered to the pain fully… when you do so, you find beauty in the longing and in feeling alive.

You heart is not broken, it’s broken open.

Allow your inner sun to shine through the cracks.

Be alive.

Take risks.