The full body YES

The FULL BODY YES. Best dating tip EVERRRR.

Okay friends, let me give you the BEST DATING TIP out there:

“The three body centres” check point 🤘🏾…

All of us have three important spaces in our bodies that either lit up in a YES!!
Or they stay inactivated/silent 😞
These are:

The MIND centre
The HEART centre
The SEXUAL centre

🧠 The mind centre represents how connected your ideas/thoughts are. To know if it’s activated, ask yourself:
Can you talk for hours and always have something else to talk about?
Do you laugh at the same things?
Do you share values?
Do you just GET each other?

💗 The heart centre represents how safe & open you can be in front of this person. To know if it’s activated, ask yourself:
Do I feel safe to open up with this person?
Do I feel I can trust him?
Can I be vulnerable? Is he/she vulnerable with me?
Is he/she honest? Does it feel easy to connect intimately?

🌶 The sexual centre represents how much sexual attraction you feel. To know if it’s activated, ask yourself:
Do I feel attracted to this person? Do I like their smell?
Do I feel like I want to be closer?
Do I find it irresistible when he/she touches me?
Do we have great chemistry in bed?

Every time you meet someone new, you ask yourself

“how’s my mind/heart/sexual centre doing?”

The more you have open the better! If you can connect in the mind, the heart & the bed.. 💥boom💥

It is up to you to have boundaries around this (or not!).
I had a boundary of a minimum of two open centres for most of my dating life… HOWEVER, I realised that I only feel 100% ecstatic with the partner I had FULL BODY YES.
So.. have a lil exploration.. or think about past lovers. How did they feel? Did the closed center become a problem in the end?