Real brings real.

The only way you get what you want:

The community you want.
The partner you want.
The job you want.
The friends you want…

IS BY BEING YOURSELF.

Often times we are so nervous about the outcome of an encounter (especially if we are invested in it, or we’re set on a specific result) that we act differently than our usual/normal.
We momentarily stop showing our full expression, our juicy deep truths, the colour of our souls, our vulnerable child inside, etc.

This happens without us noticing exactly what we are doing differently.

Do you do this?

Think of how you are with the humans that you love and feel comfortable with.
Now think of how you are when you are on a job interview, meeting a new person or on a date.
If there is a difference, then you are changing to fit the circumstances.

This is normal. And only a few people I have ever known have mastered their complete independence from others’ opinions. Def not me!
Even though you will always adapt to circumstances and the environment…

… There is a gift in trying to keep yourself as authentic as possible throughout all the places you find yourself in.

The more you can free yourself from the fear of rejection, and embrace your uniqueness, your craziness, your different-ness… the easier it will be to find the RIGHT people, jobs, partners, friends FOR YOU.

The only way people know if they like you completely or not is if you are completely yourself. The only way you know if your partner loves you with all his/her heart, is if you are showing him/her your true self.

You might get a rejection or fifty... But on the other hand, those people who resonate with you are going to feel like soul mates crafter just for each other.
I promise.